oh but then they have to download thunderbird or something. i was hoping the email would send and recieve from their pm box.
No, that would require a major rewrite of the vb code. Not to mention it would add tons of strain to your server. I mean, can you even imagine trying to give your members anywhere near the 7.5gigs of mail storage gmail currently offers? And can you imagine any of them really trusting you enough to not lose their emails?