Profiles need work after upgrading to 3.8

[SloppyGoat]

They've changed everything on me. How can I get more black in this and less grey? Preferably, I'd like all the overly grey parts to be black with grey text. I know having a grey and black makes it difficult, and I usually end up having to edit a template or two. Can anyone tell me where I need to start to fix this?

I also have this weird line in Profile Privacy. (See 2nd pic)