HELP needed i need to know my options, whats your ideas?

first off im very sorry to make this so long but i have huge problem please please read and give me your ideas and thoughts i really need them
well i just moved my host last week, i did all file transfer and all, but when i got to the point where i need to change the domain dns *this is where hell starts for me* i try to go to my domain host site, BUT I CAN'T FIND IT, NO LONGER IS IT RUNNING. i did a 2 day search to find out what happend to my domain host, and i found that the domain host, inspirenetwrok.com is no longer a domain host, they shut them selfs down due to dos attacks, says a thread i read about similar issue. btw keep in mind this was last year oct 30th when i got the domain, and till now its still working, so i did a whois on my domain and i saw that the domain is comeing from enom.com now. i went to enom.com and found out that inspirenetwork.com was resealer off enom.com so 2 days now i know this. this is where i get even more messed up, my domain info email is gmail, and that email account i used to sign my domain up is no longer in service,its deactiveated. i do not have my domain log in info so i can't log in to the enom quick domain info change cpanel i found on their site. now with my new server i tried to do a domain transfer but its trying to send me a confirm email to the unactive email my domain is under.

at this point im real lost i have no clue what i should do and what my options are.
i tried to find a email to contact enom.com and ask some how if i can get my account password sent to my new email, but i can't find a simple help email address.
i was thinking if they cant my account password sent to me, then what are my other options?
the domain will expire this oct 30th, maybe there is some way to domain redirect my current domain to a new domain. this cant be one those redirection pages, i need the domain to redirect to a diffrent domain ever time the domain is used. then maybe if this is possible i can just use this till the domain expires in oct 30th and register it again with my new host.
i do know a few for sure things
i really wanna keep my domain, i have the whole site writen for it and its already been submitted to a lot of things i have had it for a year
again sorry for this being so long but someone please help me, its been a week now since i been trying to resolve my domain issue

[mastdesi]

why dont u use a html code to redirect it from your domain to the new domain. so basically when u visit the domain u are redirected from it to another domain takes like 1-2 seconds.

Heres the html code: (just make a new .html and past this in it)
<meta HTTP-EQUIV="REFRESH" content="0; url=http://www.yourdomaintowhichyouwantittoredirect.com">

[ztempuser]

i just said hell screw all this, and i have a new domain now its very smilar to my old one just a symbol diffrent, i did this cuz now later when i get my old domain back after it expires and 30-50 days are up, i will register that domain again and i will have 2 domains lead to the same things, so if someone forgets to put the - in the main domain then i tiwll go to the domain with out the - but still same site
btw thanks for the reply i wasn't expecting anyone to reply

[Ntfu2]

Good luck registering expired domains. You'll see what i'm talking about in 30-50 days regarding this major plague on the net.

[ztempuser]

i herd it will take like 30-60 day after the domain expires, then it will be back up for people to register it?
am i missing something?

[Ntfu2]

No, besides the domain squatters and robots that automatically go out and grab those expired domains the second the become available and will try to sell you the domain.

Other then that, you arent missing much.