vb 3.01 just arcade is the only hack (but it was doing it before then) , this was doing it with phpboard and invisionboard too. But the 3 other boards have no probs with crashing and they are on the same server, using the same mysql and php version.. So i fiqured the quick solution would be stetting up a vbcron job ever hour or so, so if im not around its sorta fixes it self (repair fixes the prob everytime)