Well to make the website URL in Forum Manager you'd add a new forum and put the URL into both the Forum Title and the Forum Link fields. Your subforums will display as you have it in the photo if you go to vBulletin Options -> Forum Listing Display Options and set the depths on forumhome and forumdisplay to 2.
As for the other changes those would require extensive template modifications in forumbits... I will try some things and get back to you on that.