ok , well im sorry to hmm join the C&C , but man that site is a bit ugly... Honestly , hmm its bad , the header takes like my whole screen . And the announcements , thats buggy for me at least.
You have NO IDENTITY! , like Winter said, you have plenty of designs ,and none is defined . i tried to find some good stuff in your site, but im not sure i can find much other than members and content.
IN any case , you need an overhaul on your site , the design .. its just bad , colors may be good for what your site is intented but , the layout is bad , tetra ugly .
Get someone to do a skin , hire someone , buy a skin , dont know , but you need to really get creative with that site.
3/10 !! , sorry , but you need to pump up the brain.