How Do I Make MediaPlayer Smaller

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I like the WMP to be width=300 height=200 I want to know how to make the 2nd like the first code. (changing size does not work tried it)
I want to create modules that looks like this http://www.vbadvanced.com/products.php? but have a videoplayer inplace of an image & the bottom of module http://www.vbadvanced.com/? have reply, send to & show printable.

Is thier a way to make the videoplayer smaller than the one that shows here?

The eg.
http://www.bostonlove.org/index.php?page=cams

The Code
http://www.vbadvanced.com/forum/showthread.php?t=7437&highlight=video

<table align="center" border="0" cellpadding="$stylevar[cellpadding]" cellspacing="$stylevar[cellspacing]" class="tborder" width="100%">
<tr>
<td class="tcat"><span class="smallfont"><strong>$vba_options[portal_blockbullet] REPLACE THIS WITH THE NAME OF THIS BLOCK </span></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="$getbgrow" width="100%" align="center">
<div align="center">
<object id="MediaPlayer" width=320 height=240 classid="CLSID:22D6F312-B0F6-11D0-94AB-0080C74C7E95" standby="Loading Windows Media Player components..." type="application/x-oleobject">
<param name="FileName" value="path\to\your\video.avi">
<param name="autoStart" value="true">
<embed type="application/x-mplayer2" src="http://www.yoururl.com/path/to/your/video.avi"
name="MediaPlayer"
autostart=1
width=320
height=240>
</embed>
</object>
</div>
</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="tcat" align="center"><span class="smallfont">REPLACE WITH FOOTER TEXT OR REMOVE THIS</span></td>

</tr>
</table>
<br />


Another Size I found but why does it say netscape? What is difference between the two?

<tr>

<td width="100%" bgcolor="#000000">
<p align="center">
<script language="Javascript">
if( g_bNetscape )
{
document.writeln( "<APPLET mayscript code=WMPNS.WMP name=WMP1 width=300 height=200 MAYSCRIPT >" );
}
</script>
<OBJECT CLASSID="clsid:6BF52A52-394A-11D3-B153-00C04F79FAA6" ID="WMP">
<PARAM NAME="Name" VALUE="WMP1">
<PARAM NAME="URL" VALUE="yourlink">
</OBJECT>
</td>
</tr>