big help plz

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++++ so we need to have same database? so we cant have seperate hosts?

[miz]

no
unless you will do some ++++ing major hacking that will constantly update info
between 2 servers or you can use iframe
but for users ++++ you will need 1 db

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ok so what do usuggest for a gud merge?

whats the iframe?

[miz]

for ex . on your friend site, he will have a file
forum.php

and its will echo everything that will be in your forum
but im just talking ++++, i dont think its will work

also you will have problems with usernames.

best solution :
take the best host of both of ya, put all files on it
and on the other host, use redirect or something

thats all

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i will talk abt it thanx

so what exactly should i do?

[miz]

merage user db

and if your friend site is also a forum you will need to merage posts and stuff like that also

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ok so it will be vbulletin still?