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Old 07-09-2005, 06:11 PM
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Default Life evaluation

Quite a serious topic If you were to sit down now and spend an hour evaluating your life and the direction it's going and the good/bad decisions you have made, how would you rate it?

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- What is the worst decision you've ever made in your life and how did it affect you?
- How did you get through it?
- If you could go back and change anything that you've done what would it be?
- What has been the best decision you've made?
- Do you feel like your life is going in the direction you want it?

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Old 07-09-2005, 07:03 PM
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Sometimes its better to not look back but to learn from the mistakes and focus on the future.
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Old 07-09-2005, 07:23 PM
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I dont wish to change anything in the past because right now I am the happiest I have ever been.
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Old 07-09-2005, 08:49 PM
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Not to trash the thread, but I bet most people will not want to divulge their worst life-long mistakes in a public Internet forum.
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Old 07-09-2005, 09:18 PM
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I wouldn't really know which was my worst or best decision. All things considered, I'm quite happy with the way things have turned out.
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Old 07-09-2005, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted by corriewf
Sometimes its better to not look back but to learn from the mistakes and focus on the future.
Very well put
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Old 07-09-2005, 11:19 PM
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thing is if you cant look back retrospectivly have you learned anything? sounds like someone is ashamed of their past. yes in life i regret doing some things but i dont try to move on and sweep them under the rug, i face them like a man and i'm honest about what happened. i did the dishonest thing for awhile but couldnt sleep at night now i'm honest. and boy does it make life alot easier
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Old 07-09-2005, 11:29 PM
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My Life is more or less a waste of Time.
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Old 07-10-2005, 12:33 AM
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thing is if you cant look back retrospectivly have you learned anything? sounds like someone is ashamed of their past. yes in life i regret doing some things but i dont try to move on and sweep them under the rug, i face them like a man and i'm honest about what happened. i did the dishonest thing for awhile but couldnt sleep at night now i'm honest. and boy does it make life alot easier
Sometimes when people focus on the past they get angry and it blind them from their true hopes, dreams, and passion.

I have lived the past once and suffered the consequences of my actions and now its time to move on.

Gotta live in the tomorrow. Thats the problem with a lot of people these days, they dont think about the future because they are too busy thinking about the now or the past.

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Very well put
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Quote:
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My Life is more or less a waste of Time.
Its only a waste of time when your not doing anything to make it better.

Self pity and hate will only further inpair your judgement.
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Old 07-10-2005, 12:45 AM
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What's the meaning of "inpair"? Never heard this before.
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