Fair enough then. Mind you I have to agree that the single life is much less complicated. Been that way for 10 months and 6 days now and it's been better. Only trouoble is that when you are ill you don't get all the fussing that you do when you have yourself a partner.
I never had the fussing when I was sick, because I still had to function then the same way I did when I was feeling fine. Remember now, I was raising 4 kids (an 8-year-old boy, twin boys 2 1/2-years old and the ex) so I was busy. The sad things is, the boys are growing up, the ex never did or probably ever will.
Ah right. My ex-ex-ex fussed me when I was ill. My ex-ex (who I was with for 20 months) forced me back to work when I was unfit to do so, a tosser and general pain in the rear end. My ex was understanding but a complete tosser in other respects.
Hopefully you were lucky enough not to have any kids involved. That's where it gets really messy. I can handle what's been done to me, just not what's been done to them, and it would make you sick.