My host doesn't seem to mind just as long as I don't exceed my bandwith, and I don't really get errors unless I mess up a hack. I run tons of queries and my speed is hardly effected so I guess I am in good standing
Well, I will hold off on installing more hacks than. My forums have been up for almost a year and I haven't had any crashes due to my massive, excessive amount of queries, so I think I am alright in that department. As for the bandwith, I get 30gb and I never come near that number, so I am fine in that department as well.
Thanks for all the information, I will keep it in mind