Please Help! Unread counter jumps always back to 1

[Wolver2]

@Lynne Do you mean this:

I already tried changing the correct numbers of PM's

In table user I changed the fields of "pmunread" from 1 to 0 for that specific user and "pmtotal" from 10 to (minus 1) = 9

But then Vbulletin changes it back to pmunread to 1 after user receives a new pm and reads it. It always comes back.. I dont know why lol.. is there some cache..?

@ForceHSS

I was in panic and diddnt know about deleting via that way.. I usually research first but was sadly in panic.. and diddnt want anyone to open the PMs with virused links