Sharing Database with 2 sites

[ConsoleShark]

Okay, first off let me start by saying we do have 2 vBulletin Licenses.

Me and My buddy want to have 2 site's on 1 database like this:

http://e90post.com/forums/index.php

http://m3post.com/forums/index.php

Notice how they have share everything.

I want to have my Forum Arrangement different from his, a different Skin when browsing my forum, and share everything posts, threads, members, etc.

His forum is already established and I don't have vBulletin installed yet on my site. We are also not on the same server.

Is there a Modification that completely handle's this? I was thinking using both the vBNetwork mod and the share user table mod together. But would that cause any conflicts and make this not work? Is there a better way to do this?

I know this is possible because of the 2 sites I just showed you are doing it exactly how I want to do it.

Can anyone help me do this I need it Urgently!

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Really would like some help.