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Thanks for the replies
In reply to Rapscallion the site 99% of the time the site falls into the "If it brings in money and you enjoy it, you're very fortunate.". The money it brings in isn't anywhere near giving up day job levels, however as long as it pays for itself I am more than happy to put the work into the site and have no intention of making it a business. The biggest problem the site has is "history" and this taints everything I do. The majority of the members of the site (including myself) were originally on another very similar site. Just over a year ago the site admin sold out to a "proper" business and everything changed (different forum software (was VB), loads of banners, spam offers etc etc) and the original community atmosphere disappeared. In addition to this in the closing year of the original site there was little to no moderation so the idiots started to rule the roost. I then came along an offered an alternative that was similar to the pre-corporate original, so in the matter of a few days I went from 0 to 1000 members. Due to this history I decided to be absolutely open, honest and verbose about everything that was happening on the site, I went to great lengths to explain why paid subs & sponsors were needed, that I had no intention of selling out and have gone out of my way to make the moderation system as transparent as it possibly can be. 99% of members accept all this and love the site and are a joy to deal with but there is an extremely vocal minority that assume and preach about the worse case scenario. The thing is these people use my openness against me as it gives them more ammo in their "he isn't telling us the truth, revels in iron fisted moderation and will sell out at the drop of a hat" crusade. I know I could and should just ignore these people and in theory they will either leave or put up and shut up, the fact is that a year on these hypocrites are still using the site and all its features everyday and are showing no signs of moving on. To give a crazy example, a few months ago I took the site down for 2 hours to perform some critical server maintenance. I announced this a week before the downtime and explained why it was necessary and how it would benefit the site etc etc. Now according to the conspiracy theorists no maintenance was needed but the downtime was necessary to take a snapshot of the site that I would then filter their "opinions" from and create a portfolio that I was putting together to present to potential site buyers! When I made the first post I was ranting, I have now had a chance to sit back and decide what to do. So I intend to become a typical Admin, I will still moderate and work on the site however I am not going to explain anything more than is absolutely necessary. I also plan to simply ignore the conspiracy theorists and ban those that take it too far. I also plan to create a normal "secret" account that I can use to participate in the forum as a normal person without the baggage of the "admin". |
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At registration I am currently asking: What is the 5 letter of "spammers" * back to the conspiracy theorists, when this change to the registration process was made apparently I disabled email verification to get more new members posting quickly (which is true) but the only reason for this is that it would help line my pockets when they decided to take up a paid sub ![]() |
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Thanks alot. I am going to try it. It will take a few days to see if it works. Thanks again. Right now i am completely burned out because of this activity so maybe if i can get this stuff to stop I will be more motivated to work harder. HAHA thanks again
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Drinking and smoking helps...not good for your physical health but it allows you to keep your sanity.
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I banned a member on my forum 10 times in 6 years. He annoyed me to no end, but he was friends with most the rest of the forum. Your forum, unfortunately, is not a place for you to make friends, it's for others to do so. You don't control who and how your forum is going to be used, and what for, and tweaking it is never going to end. I like forum democracies too, but you need a set of rules, and point out that you are the owner of the forum, you pay, you manage, you spend time setting it so it works, it's private property, not a public one. So letting everyone discuss is nice and all, but it's your call in the end, and if people are not happy, they need to look for another place to go, simple as that, tell them that. Just tell them, yes I want to make a profit with the forum, I decide stuff here but you are free to discuss and suggest everything, and I'm the Administrator first and your friend second. Think objectively, not emotionally, don't it personal, and it won't get to you. The guy is being a ++++? You can call him names or let the community work it out. They are the community, so it's their damn problem. As long as everyone clicks the ads, it's all fine and dandy. And if they ask you to ban him, ban his ass out. When playing Civilization, democracy is the most PITA form of government for the player. Let them kill each other and evolve at their own pace, just delete the spam and ban the porn posters. Try to put some sense in their heads, and they will listen even if they don't agree, because of your position, and discuss it among them. Tears will roll, and it will work itself out. Think of poking a germ culture with a stick. Don't put your finger in it. If nothing else works, pull the plug. But as you are going to pull the plug anyway, why don't you try putting some ads in there? You don't have anything to lose but members which you were going to anyway by pulling the plug! If you want to have a forum to make friends and be admired for your hard work, forget it. They will hate you and ask for more to be done. You will get some thank yous some times, but not as many as you would deserve. Don't depend on your forum. All communities are different, so take my advice with two grains of salt. (oh, and don't let your ego inflate for being an administrator... MANY MANY communities are filled with "the superior forum staff" usual suspects. being an administrator and moderator sucks, there's nothing to feel proud about.) |
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I just wish I new how to get lots of new members that are legitamate and will actually post
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I have 200 members and 35k posts. About 30 members log in daily. I have some very good members and some not so good users. Some will turn on you in an instant if you don't give them their way. They will try and poison your forum because when they are mad they want everyone else mad at you and will do everything they can to make you feel like pulling the plug.
If you pull the plug they win. Think about the good members before making any drastic decisions like shutting down. Good members have invested their thoughts and time in the forum as you have invested your time and money. Being open and including your users is very noble but in my opinion you are only asking for trouble in the long run. It's your forum. You are the boss and do not have to explain your decisions to anybody. The more you tell them, the more you give them to pick you apart. They don't need to know what goes on behind the curtain, so keep them in the dark because it is not their concern. If you want to place ads or sell merchandise on your site go for it. It's nobody's business but yours. If they don't like the ads, sell them a subscription and disable ads for the ones who pay for the privilege. If someone starts getting out of line with you but they haven't crossed the ban line, discourage them from visiting your site by installing and using the miserable user mod. I used to have moderators and tried to run a democratic site. When problems arose with certain members I had moderators that sided with them and that made matters even more complicated. I have since dropped all mods and I am the only one that has any authority on the forum, everyone else is equal. |
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You have a ban control, use it on the people that wont listen to you and keep critising, whether or not they have paid for a subscription
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