Reported social group message and visitor message email

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Please forgive me if I have posted this in the wrong forum. I DID search first but perhaps my search terms were to vague or something but I could not find what I was looking for.

We have recently added 3.7 to our site and the members love all the social networking type stuff. BUT when a profile visitor message is reported or when a social group message is reported an email goes out to ALL of our moderators, which they do not like since they are not capable of doing anything about those reports.

I have a moderator that has offered to be the social group/profile message moderator and I would like to give her her own usergroup so that she can handle these issues as they come up. So I would like the emails that are generated when profile messages and social group messages are reported to go to her (and perhaps admin as well)

I can not seem to find that sort of setting. The only setting I have is for reported posts.

Any help would be much appreciated.

TIA,
Heidi