How to change when notified of new user join??

[z0diac]

1) Ok, I just signed up as a new user. It said I will have an email waiting for me that I have to click.
2) The email is there, so is an email to admin (me) saying there's a new user
3) I will NOT click the link.
4) I go to Admin CP
5) User *is* listed under group Awaiting Confirmation
6) User is *not* listed under awaiting moderation.
7) I click the validation link in the new user's email, it says "Your account has been submitted for moderation by an administrator and will be activated shortly"
8) in Admin CP, the new user is now listed as awaiting moderation.

Ok, got it...

NOW, is there any way to change it so that admins are only notified AFTER they've clicked the email link and are waiting for moderation? I dont' want to be notified unless a user has verified his email and is waiting my approval, because I really don't care to be notified of possible fake user accounts.
Is there a hack available for this?