Using too many resources?

[jbear6]

I have a 2.26 vB installation that has been at the same host for three years now. All of a sudden, out of the blue, I get hit with a "Suspended Page" Error page, where my website used to be. They claim I am using too many resources. Our membership has been "halved" in the last two years, and where we used to have 50 members on our Who's Online page then, we might average 15 - 20 members now. I haven't added any hacks in the last year, and page loading times average .50 seconds.

When I asked for some specific numbers on what was using all these extra resources, this is what I got back:

+--------+------------------+-----------+----------------------+---------+------+-------+------------------+
| Id | User | Host | db | Command | Time | State | Info |
+--------+------------------+-----------+----------------------+---------+------+-------+------------------+
| 128104 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 830 | | |
| 128429 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1550 | | |
| 129074 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1223 | | |
| 129942 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1466 | | |
| 132481 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 738 | | |
| 133200 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1122 | | |
| 134166 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1181 | | |
| 134348 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1602 | | |
| 134606 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 683 | | |
| 134723 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 473 | | |
| 134815 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1659 | | |
| 134838 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1538 | | |
| 134957 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 862 | | |
| 134987 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1089 | | |
| 135077 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 173 | | |
| 135082 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1064 | | |
| 135169 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1505 | | |
| 135262 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 353 | | |
| 135278 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1489 | | |
| 135282 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1489 | | |
| 135307 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1454 | | |
| 135411 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1429 | | |
| 135442 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1416 | | |
| 135569 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 601 | | |
| 135696 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1059 | | |
| 135807 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1265 | | |
| 135832 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1257 | | |
| 136024 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1179 | | |
| 136058 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1162 | | |
| 136099 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 1139 | | |
| 136145 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 382 | | |
| 136312 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 280 | | |
| 136461 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 417 | | |
| 136521 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 940 | | |
| 136678 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 855 | | |
| 136723 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 738 | | |
| 136891 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 751 | | |
| 136908 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 739 | | |
| 137063 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 601 | | |
| 137070 | bresso_adsenseai | localhost | bresso_adsenseairmp3 | Sleep | 650 | | |
| 137224 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 570 | | |
| 137241 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 561 | | |
| 137353 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 501 | | |
| 137665 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 330 | | |
| 137810 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 283 | | |
| 137850 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 272 | | |
| 137852 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 270 | | |
| 137974 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 221 | | |
| 138001 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 204 | | |
| 138028 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 2 | | |
| 138325 | jbear_vbdforu | localhost | jbear_vbdforum | Sleep | 26 | | |
| 138365 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 10 | | |
| 138368 | eximstats | localhost | eximstats | Sleep | 9 | | |
| 138376 | eximstats | localhost | eximstats | Sleep | 2 | | |
| 138377 | bresso_airmp3 | localhost | bresso_airmp3 | Sleep | 3 | | |
| 138379 | root | localhost | | Query | 0 | | show processlist |
+--------+------------------+-----------+----------------------+---------+------+-------+-----

Does this prove I am a server "resource hog"?

Thanks
Jbear6