Help needed over a skin/theme/style ?

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Hi all,
I'm new so I hope its ok yo post this here.
I have a forum on VB 4.0.3 it is a bog standard foum with a few members and I want to build it up, and maybe cover my costs through moetisation.
So I was advised to get a logo on the site (done) upgrade to 4.1.2, get vba cms and come here and get a skin/theme/style.

As you might have guessed, I don't know the difference between a skin, a theme or a style.Maybe they are one and the same thing.
What I do know is that my forum is currently the blue out of the box colour from the install and I was it to look like this forum using the Tangerine skin for version 3

I have corresponded with vbskins (forumflux) who sell the skin but they don;t do one for v4 and wont be making one.
So I am posting to ask if anyone knows if a similar looking skin that I could use is available or, as I don'y know how to make a template if it is possible to request one from someone?
regards
T

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Is there no one who can give me any help or is the weekend a bad time to ask please?