Need Help

[emmateague]

I downloaded a new style for my forum last night and unlike my previous styles it has the new PM info etc set off to the left and there is a search bar to the right. I have found that most the usual bits of code for navbar are now in the header template and to add to this confusion i have found myself unable to edit the links on my navbar. I want to remove the calendar, faq and memberlist links, and add my own links in to my arcade, casino and merchandise. Can anyone tell me what i need to be doing here? The usual
<td class="vbmenu_control"><a href="URL">LINKED TEXT</a></td>
doesnt work! I have pasted the template code in below:

<!-- logo -->
<a name="top"></a>
<div align="center" class="outer_border">
<div align="center" class="inner_border">
<table border="0" width="$stylevar[outertablewidth]" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" align="center" class="header_bg">
<tr>
<td align="$stylevar[left]" valign="top" height="112"><a href="$vboptions[forumhome].php$session[sessionurl_q]"><img src="$stylevar[titleimage]" border="0" alt="$vboptions[bbtitle]" /></a></td>
<td align="$stylevar[right]">
&nbsp;
<!-- banners -->

</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td height="34" colspan="2">

<!-- nav buttons bar -->
<div align="center">
<table cellpadding="$stylevar[cellpadding]" cellspacing="0" border="0" width="100%" align="center">
<tr align="center">
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="usercp.php$session[sessionurl_q]">$vbphrase[user_cp]</a></td>
</if>
<if condition="$show['registerbutton'] AND !$vboptions['invites_reg_only_by_invite']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="register.php$session[sessionurl_q]" rel="nofollow">$vbphrase[register]</a></td>
</if>
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="faq.php$session[sessionurl_q]" accesskey="5">$vbphrase[faq]</a></td>$cyb_frules_link
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="memberlist.php$session[sessionurl_q]">$vbphrase[members_list]</a></td>

<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="calendar.php$session[sessionurl_q]">$vbphrase[calendar]</a></td>

<td class="nav_menu_control">
<if condition="$show['popups']">
<if condition="$show['searchbuttons']">
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php?$session[sessionurl]do=getnew" accesskey="2">$vbphrase[new_posts_nav]</a></td>
<else />

<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php?$session[sessionurl]do=getdaily" accesskey="2">$vbphrase[todays_posts]</a></td>
</if>
<td id="navbar_search" class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php$session[sessionurl_q]" accesskey="4" rel="nofollow">$vbphrase[search]</a> <if condition="$show['quicksearch']"><script type="text/javascript"> vbmenu_register("navbar_search"); </script></if></td>
</if>
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td id="usercptools" class="nav_menu_control"><a href="$show[nojs_link]#usercptools">$vbphrase[quick_links]</a> <script type="text/javascript"> vbmenu_register("usercptools"); </script></td>
</if>
<else />
<if condition="$show['searchbuttons']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php$session[sessionurl_q]" accesskey="4">$vbphrase[search]</a></td>
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php?$session[sessionurl]do=getnew" accesskey="2">$vbphrase[new_posts_nav]</a></td>
<else />
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="search.php?$session[sessionurl]do=getdaily" accesskey="2">$vbphrase[todays_posts]</a></td>
</if>
</if>
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="forumdisplay.php?$session[sessionurl]do=markread" rel="nofollow">$vbphrase[mark_forums_read]</a></td>
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="#" onclick="window.open('misc.php?$session[sessionurl]do=buddylist&amp;focus=1','buddylist','statusbar=n o,menubar=no,toolbar=no,scroll bars=yes,resizable=yes,width=250,height=300'); return false;">$vbphrase[open_buddy_list]</a></td>
</if>
</if>
<if condition="$show['member']">
<td class="nav_menu_control"><a href="login.php?$session[sessionurl]do=logout&amp;logouthash=$bbuserinfo[logouthash]" onclick="return log_out()">$vbphrase[log_out]</a></td>
</if>
</tr>
</table>
</div>
<!-- / nav buttons bar -->
</td></tr>
</table>
<!-- /logo -->

<!-- content table -->
<script type="text/javascript" src="clientscript/glossy.js"></script>
$spacer_open

$_phpinclude_output

Can anyone tell me how i add a link to my arcade that will work?