How do I incorporate a flash header that turns to an image on all pages except home

[kobescoresagain]

And displays as an image if no flash is found?

I have found this.

<!-- LOGO -->
<center>
<object width="936" height="181">
<param name="movie" value="http://www.fitnessandbeyond.net/Forums/images/misc/fitness_flashv3.swf ">
<embed src="http://www.fitnessandbeyond.net/Forums/images/misc/fitness_flashv3.swf " width="936" height="181">
</embed>
</object>
</center>
<!-- END LOGO -->

in another post which would allow me to do a header, but I would like to make it so the header shows only once on the homepage. All other pages would be fixed. Also I would like to have it only show to users with flash installed for obvious reasons.

Thanks for your help.