yeah, i did the following.. sort of setting it up like an email header..
Code:
$touserinfo[username],
You have received a new private message at $vboptions[bbtitle] from $bbuserinfo[username]. Please click here to log in and reply:
$vboptions[bburl]/private.php
FROM: $bbuserinfo[username]
TO: $touserinfo[username]
SUBJECT: $title
$message