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Old 01-23-2003, 02:16 PM
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Well, I can’t tell you to leave Yaxay, ‘cause if I did, it would signify that I have a gripe about the place. Which I do not.
But if I tell you to stay, you might be do so, and continue being uncomfy about things that annoy or disrupt you.

But what I can tell you, is what I would do in such a situation.
Firstly I would determine what the site is worth to me, and why I actually go there in the first place. If there is sufficient reason, then I would attempt to overcome whatever hindrances, obstacles are in my path. Either by not responding to them (gradually they will cease), by totally ignoring them, (this works wonders) or by responding to them in such a sweet and positive manner, that now the other party no longer quite knows how to respond. But my number one tool would be to not let it effect me – because in doing so I would be allowing them to take away the bit of enjoyment I do get out of the place. And in my eyes, my enjoyment is not theirs to take.

Then again, if there is not sufficient reason for me to stay there,…….

Cypher, it is not easy for us to tell you what to do or what not to do. And as Tony already said….every board, even the best ones, from time to time experience some odd posters, and some difficult times.

-quinte-
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