custom profile fields *help*

[youradultworld]

$customfields_profile I believe is what I have tracked down the output of when I create custom profile fields.

I created a custom user field, 'single or couple?' - two radio buttons.
Depending on which is selected, I want a 2nd set of questions to disappear and reappar. I have the javascript for this.

Let me get to my question,

If I delete the custom profile field the database entry also gets deleted, but I have found the right where i can manually add html, and javascript I imagine, to the template, so how can I somehow delete them but still have the database entries so that I can hard code into the template my own custom user field?

Thanks anyone who can help me in any way.