How to change when notified of new user join??

[z0diac]

By default vB is set up to notify admins/mods/whoever of a new user join BEFORE that user clicks the link in the validation email. This means some are not yet placed into the "Moderate Users" queue. Which means, a lot of my admins are going to approve some new users, who aren't even in the list, so the login to admin cp, go to the right menu, and have nothing waiting for them, even though they got an email saying someone joined.

Is there a hack to change this so that people are notified of new users ONLY AFTER they have clicked the validation link in the email they're sent?

That way we'll only be notified of a new user once that user is waiting for moderation approval?