Need a hand with MP3 embedding

This is more of a general HTML question, so I apologize if this isn't the best section for it.

I'm looking for a neat and clean compact way to play an embedded MP3 on the front page of my website. I've been checking out a few flash players, and fiddling with the standard embedding codes, but the problem is that the flash ones I've found are just way too big, and the embed codes look completely different when you go from IE to Firefox, Opera, and so on.

Can anyone recommend a good looking, clean MP3 player that can scale to ~50px high and be embedded cleanly in a table, that looks the same cross browser?

Thanks much!