flash header always load?

[ztempuser]

hello all, in a few days after i fnish my flash based header i will be replaceing the header i have now. but before i do i wanted to clear some problems i have

first off the header has a small slow song in the background
next it has a preloading thing at the top so the header will say loading and when its done it will dispaly the main frame.

now my problem is i have links in the flash, when you click on the links it takes you to the page its supose to, but the whole page reloads.

my question to you is how can i make the header load only one time? but the rest of the page will reload as normal? could this be done? if so does anyone have some code examples i can use or how do i change things to make this happen