[Serenity]

you aren't getting complaints, you are getting criticism like you asked for.

it isn't about the time or money you put into your style or how many members you are getting to your forum. if you want people to be attracted to your site, there are basic rules you should follow. like having an easy navigation. you don't want people getting lost in your site do you? when people look at something and get confused, they'll move on to the next place.

i'd critique your theme, but i'm afraid you really don't want to hear it unless someone tells you that it is the sweetest thing ever..........