many many thanks,
but i must say that it was not looking right
so i took the whole navbar template and i put it into frontpage

and i messed areound with it for like 30min and i got it to a useable code its much bigger but hey, it works
Code:
<!-- peterska2 navbar box edit-->
</td>
<td align="right" width="5%" class="alt1" valign="top" bordercolor="#FDFDFD">
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" border="0" align="right" width="140" height="0" style="border-collapse: collapse" bordercolor="#F7F7F7" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<tr>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="44" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><font size="1">
<a href=http://www.el-halawa.net/forum/quran.php" style="text-decoration: none">
<font color="#4F5459">Quran</font></a></font></b></td>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="59" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><font size="1">
<a href="http://el-halawa.net/forum/gallery.php" style="text-decoration: none">
<font color="#4F5459">Gallery</font></a></font></b></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="44" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><font size="1">
<a href="http://www.el-halawa.net/forum/tv.php" style="text-decoration: none">
<font color="#4F5459">TV</font></a></font></b></td>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="59" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><font size="1">
<a href="http://www.el-halawa.net/forum/arcade.php" style="text-decoration: none">
<font color="#4F5459">Arcade</font></a></font></b></td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="41" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><a href="#" onclick="return OpenRadio()" style="text-decoration: none">
<font size="1" color="#4F5459">Radio</font></a></b></td>
<td class="alt1" align="justify" bordercolorlight="#F7F7F7" bordercolordark="#F7F7F7" bordercolor="#00FF00" height="0" width="59" bgcolor="#F7F7F7">
<b><font size="1">
<a href="http://www.el-halawa.net/forum/vbjokes.php" style="text-decoration: none">
<font color="#4F5459">Jokes</font></a></font></b></td>
</tr>
</table>
</td>
</tr>
</table>
<!-- / peterska2 navbar box edit -->
you can see it here
www.el-halawa.net
thanks once again peterska2
now if i can just make it look like the picture