"why so hostile?" (I've been in debate, is this a tactic? Good luck... LOL) This is me, like it or not. Nothing "hostile" about it... Don't try to make my comments into more than they are.

People don't like to hear the truth.
^ chatbum already said it but: If you don't know what you're doing then don't try to do it... AND if you do decide to do it after the fact, don't go blaming others for your mistake.....

Not jumping on anyone just saying don't go blaming others if you are the one that did the messing up...