I can relate to it just like, GrCh_Jeff. I'm far from a computer person.
Since I'm not a coder - not an excuse by any means - often I'll need some level of guidance to get me jump started. By looking at script routines, even if they are not exactly what I need, I try to manipulate it to serve my needs. By learning how codes work sometimes I'm able to craft something up myself. For just being with vB about 2 months I think I'm coming along nicely.
Every now and then I'll ask questions, though, I don't like to depend nor become a burden. My best way to send a thank you is by extending what answers I've been given and evolve from there. With the things I've learned from others I try to give back.
I'm glad I came across this thread as it holds true today. Very well written, amykhar.