I've followed this thread for a long time and I laugh every time I read some bleeding heart going on about privacy.
Forums are OWNED by their administrators (although in some cases admins are merely employees of companies who OWN the forums).
This means they also
OWN the entire contents of the database, because they
OWN the website. This means they can look at it as much as they like without anybody being able to do a single solitary thing about it
IF on the other hand, they were taking the information contained within the database and selling it to a third party and it wasn't stipulated within the privacy policy that they'd be doing this, then you've got a right to complain as this has been made illegal in many countries (particularly the US and UK which I'd imagine is where a majority of you are operating from).
If you're going to cry about people reading the messages of their members to ensure their safety then you're no better than the people causing the need for this kind of functionality. I bet if some kid on your board is raped because some sick bastard groomed them via PM on your message board you'll feel
really intelligent because
YOU didn't take steps to allow you to police your own website properly.
I feel so much better having said that now
Cheers,
Robert