[Detomah]

Ok, after a little bit of investigating...

I've found part of the problem of the missing coloured buddy icons:

</template>
		<template name="buddies_notonanylist" templatetype="template" date="1131562192" username="seba" version="3.5.1"><![CDATA[<a href="buddies.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$userinfo[userid]"><img src="$stylevar[imgdir_misc]/notonanylist.gif" border="0" alt="$vbphrase[buddy_notonanylist]"></a>]]></template>
		<template name="buddies_onignorelist" templatetype="template" date="1131562240" username="seba" version="3.5.1"><![CDATA[<a href="buddies.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$userinfo[userid]"><img src="$stylevar[imgdir_misc]/onignorelist.gif" border="0" alt="$vbphrase[buddy_onignorelist]"></a>]]></template>
	</templates>

Your missing a template there in the product-buddiehack.xml file. So basically it is only adding 2 templates for the buddie icons.

The one it is missing is:
buddies_onbuddylist

<a href="buddies.php?$session[sessionurl]u=$userinfo[userid]"><img src="$stylevar[imgdir_misc]/onbuddylist.gif" border="0" alt="$vbphrase[buddy_onbuddylist]"></a>

However, after manually adding that template to the buddy product system, i've now found a slightly different problem.

All users that are either on your buddy list or or whatever it is that brings up the red icon are showing as green icons, which i'm certain is wrong?

Hehe this is good practice for me here at the same time.

Not sure if it is possible, but would be nice to be able to reject wanabees and kick yourself off their list?

Are there a couple more phrases missing too?
e.g. Last Visit & Date Of Birth?

Missing phrase - viewmemberbuddies ?