k i found where it is in MEMBERINFO template
just find this
Code:
<div class="fieldset">
<if condition="$show['extrainfo']">
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="$stylevar[formspacer]" border="0">
<if condition="$userinfo['birthday']">
<tr>
<td>
<strong>$vbphrase[birthday]</strong>:<br />
$userinfo[birthday]
</td>
</tr>
</if>
$customfields
</table>
<else />
and change it to this
Code:
<div class="fieldset">
<if condition="$show['extrainfo']">
<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="$stylevar[formspacer]" border="0">
$customfields
</table>
<else />
in case anyone else wants to do this
and than just edit that phrase