i see your point about the 'use email instead', but i have PMs (

) enabled, and my members like to use them.
i had someone ask me about this 'feature', because he now gets his emails on his cell phone. he likes subscribing to threads and seeing the contents of replies on his phone, and would like to do the same with PMs. to me, if i can deliver one more feature of my site to someone while they're 'on the road', it's a win.
personally, i wouldn't mind having the feature either - so if someone sends me a PM while i'm at work, i can just read my email rather than going to the site when i may not be able to.
i'd just rather be able to get this done for my users, rather than telling them 'use email instead'.
that said, anyone wanna help me out?