The closest ones I could find were
http://www.vbulletintemplates.com/mo...?threadid=1912 and
http://www.vbulletintemplates.com/mo...?threadid=3050 . I remember that there were others in the database that were gray but the database broke in 3.0.0.
If you just want the standard buttons but a different color, either download the gfx dev kit from the member's area or check out a program called (IIRC) vButton.