[sabret00the]

you got married for a reason, maybe you're neglecting your wife for personal glory where as you're motives should be for the both of you, such is the rule of marriage, that's why we do it, if your wife and life is no longer enough for you then you shoudln't have got married but if that's not the case you need to work at it until things are better.

btw learning php sucks, so your best bet would be to make stuff with php as you learn, like i.e. i want to make {this} so i'll learn {this}, the best methods i've found are rather simple books, which enable you to have a relationship and learn at the same time.

a computer can give you accomplishment but it won't keep you warm at night, though saying that theirs plenty of sites to find many women to keep you warm, but they won't love you and fi you end up with a geek and she's better than you then she'll lose her patience with you and crush your confidence, the coders life is a lonely one for most people.

gah maybe i should've read the thread properly first, i'm probably repeating loads of things.