Sorry to hear about your problems... that is quite a chunk of change to toss down on something and not recieve the support you need.
If you ever consider adding a forum to your site, you should deffinitely check out vbulletin. We have a pretty good community here at vbulletin.org and alot of (free) modifications for the board for added functionality that you might need. Alot of us here run our entire sites of the vbulletin "engine".
Anyway, you might also want to check out some places like sitepoint or maybe even slashdot. Both are large communities that may be able to assist you or point you in the right direction. Either way good luck and let us know how things turn out.
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