[CrazyLady]

just a shot in the dark here, but in the "functions_secretadmirer.php" could I replace this

  //
  // Send an email if we couldn't send a PM
  //
  if (!($notifyUser['options'] & $_USEROPTIONS['receivepm'])) {
    //
    // Get the Email message
    //

with this?

  //
  // Send an email if we couldn't send a PM
  //
  if (!($notifyUser['options'] & $_USEROPTIONS['receivepm'] & $vboptions['showemail'] & $vboptions['adminemail'])) {
    //
    // Get the Email message
    //

all new to this stuff, but my attempt here is to check if the user has enabled both "Receive Email from Administrators" and "receive emails from other members". if not, no email is sent.

am I close? :ermm: