Thank you...I guess working quickly on 3 hours sleep doesn't help much, lol. Sorry Faranth for not understanding what you had told me already!
What's weird was that I did change the display order and saved it before, but that didn't work at the time...I had a big mess with files and stuff all over the place and have slowly updated everything and it works fine now! I knew not to give up on this hack - i knew it was me because I said I'm missing something before, lol.
My site is looking awesome already with Faranth's initial setup!
My site:
http://www.dstcentral.com/adv_index.php (temporary address)