Yeah it can be fustrating, and you don't need to apologize.
You add them:
Admin CP >> Edit Style >> Edit Templates >> Postbit Templates >> postbit_userinfo template
If you see where the other $post[fieldX] are you can put other word OR coding around it etc.
ie. if the field you made is for Hair Color and the profilefieldid was 6 then you would put something like.
PHP Code:
<b>Hair Color: </b>$post[field6]<br />
below say $post[field5 OR 4]
Cheers,
g-force2k2