Actually, I've found quite the contrary most femme gamers I've come across are pretty darn attractive they're just closet losers like me
Mad - Did you trying going into the db to try and manually change it? Not an easy way by any means, but I know there was at least one instance where I went into the db with phpMyAdmin because the admin cp just kept kicking out the original value everytime I tried to submit a new one. It's a beta so I figure whatever I can finagle around to make it work, is great, its the ghetto way about it but whatever...