Shhhh, you must not know of my mega-leet queries! Heh, the pages load fast enough that I really do not mind them.

Actually, I was surprised too, but I guess I am on a good server or something. I talked to the host (its not a big company) and he didn't seem to mind I was running all the queries just as long as I kept within my 30gb/month limit
I am keeping it plain and basic because I don't know how to make a graphical uber one and because I don't want to buy one. On that note I probably won't change the grey postbit because its a light, soft color and it doesn't clash or look bad.
I agree the header is a little large, I have been meaning to fix that (damn lazyness).
And I will close up some gaps on the forums and see how that looks.
Thanks for the feedback so far, its much appreciated!