Hi. Here's my two cents. Whenever I came onto a 'help' board, I felt like there were two groups of people. The people who were there for help and the people who knew what the heck they were doing and were there to give advice.
Whenever I 'peeked' into the lounge, it was almost always the same thing. I had a feeling as though I stumbled upon their private chat room. I know that sounds silly, but it was my immediate reaction. When I asked for help, I got it and that was it. Straight to the point, no 'hi, how are yas'.
When I came to the VB community, I noticed some differences. People were friendly. It wasn't tabboo to say hello. The ones who had attitude problems were still helpful. I got help until my problem was solved, not just one answer.
When VB 'split' the hacks section I was concerned that it was going to fall into that 'you don't belong here anymore' attitude. Luckily, that hasn't really happened. I've grown to enjoy coming here, and reading the different sections.
You want a true community? One, why is vb.com considered 'separate'? I always thought it was one big community, just specialized in peoples' needs. I've met some wonderful people on this board and look forward to meeting more. Even if I can't help, I at least try. I may not jump in and thank someone for a hack, but I click the 'Installed' button to show my thanks and approval. Firefly has been wonderful. He's always offering help. Boofo made me realize that this is more than just a support site, that there are friends to be made and conversations and debates to enjoy. =)
Anyway, that's my two cents... and then some.