For anyone that cares I added this to the usercpnav template under User Control Panel Templates this gives the users a button within the user cp. I am sure someone will do it on accident as many do not seem to read anything, but hey they will learn when they make this big of a mistake. I have this installed in vbb 2.2.7 and I have tested it and it does work.
Code:
<td bgcolor="$cpnav[7]"><smallfont><b><a href="member2.php?s=&action=deleteme">Delete me</a></b></smallfont></td>
Edited the code in here as I posted the wrong one in there this can be pasted in the usercpnav after the last line like this one.