I'm not sure if this is what you wanted, but if you subsitute this:
Code:
<tr>
<td bgcolor="{firstaltcolor}"><normalfont><b>Invisible Mode?</b></normalfont><br>
<smallfont>Selecting yes allows you to surf the forums without appearing in the 'Logged In Users' list.</smallfont></td>
<td bgcolor="{firstaltcolor}"><normalfont>
<input type="radio" name="invisible" value="yes"> yes
<input type="radio" name="invisible" value="no" checked> no
</normalfont></td>
</tr>
with this
Code:
<input type="hidden" name="invisible" value="no">
in the registeradult template, people won't be able to choose to be invisible. If you do the same in the proper user option template and you should be set.