Sorry to hear this, I myself can't imagine and I'm sure others here cannot as well and more than likely why there is a lack of replies i.e. most of us are speechless

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Currently I have some personal issues to take care of before I could even consider a donation (tansmission on our primary car is OUT, $1700+ to fix and before Christmas geesh lol) otherwise I would more than willingly just can't currently and for that I apologize. I will wish you the sincerest of luck though and I hope you two get through this in a positive way, whatever you do don't let it get you down! I know that's easier said than done but keep that in the back of your mind through this the entire time... i.e. keep a smile handy and use it as often as you can, it's cheerful to smile and I'm sure your wife loves how you smile, always the little things that matter

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