You asked for feedback - so I hope you don't mind the feedback I have for you:
A logo is supposed to represent your brand (Cafe Flirt) while leaving a positive, lasting impression on the mind of your website user. In my opinion, your current design does neither. I think your current design is amateurish at best and not a worthy representation of the type of logo a $200+ premium software deserves.
I think you'd be better off commissioning a new design, whether free or paid. If you have a budget (small or large) -
let me know via PM. I'll be happy to create something nice for your forum.
Whatever route you decide to go in, good luck with it
J.