I don't know whom that was directed at but it doesn't sound like you wrote it to me.
What you are looking for is probably somewhere in functions.php and as far as I can remember has been discussed here already.
Now... could Nakkid please get in touch with me regarding the hack I asked about? Does it involve adding replacement variables?
If yes, I would have to add 4 replacement variables and a new style to the header template to be able show 3d borders. in
postbit, forumdisplay_threadslist and other templates.
Please sir, show thyself
Polly