The easy way is to just upgrade to 4.2 and update the add-ons. But, if you must stay on 4.1.11 AND you can code...
Disable the plugins that create the tabs for the add-ons and re-create the tabs using
this, then wrap the tab declarations in a $show['member'] condition, e.g. on the
parse_templates plugin hook:
PHP Code:
if ($show['member']) {
ExtendedNavigations::update(array(
'name' => $vbphrase['tab_1'],
'url' => 'tab_1.php'
));
# etc...
}