[Hippy]

ok for now
this is what I came up with
Paul M Removed this Reputation notification from Display Unread Posts
(and Reputation Comments in 4.1) mod for vb4.2
since Display Reputation Comments Given mod was integrated into vb's core

I will have to search for the changes to make it work..
but I'm super busy with updating sites..

I always used and like this mod Recent Thanks for [AJAX] Post Thank You Hack
it does something similar
it will display recent thanks and the amount
note* the members will still get the reputation and view it in the settings
but will not see a notification for a post or thread thanked
they will now see recent thanks

there is a new option in the Admincp called

User Reputation Options
under there set Enable New Reputation Comments Notification to yes
so if a member uses the default give reputation they will receive a notification
and for a post thanks they will see recent thanks
if you install this great mod
By Scandal Recent Thanks for [AJAX] Post Thank You Hack

or you can try to disable the option in the admincp and install the older version of Paul M's mod
but I am not sure of conflicts or if it will display the default reputations given..

Hope this holds you for now
till things smooth over with vb4.2 and the new navbar system..